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Crowned Opulence

What is it about a woman being unapologetic about her dreams and her drive that people find so intimidating? Don't wilt sis, bloom with opulence anyway! Welcome to the Crowned Opulence podcast.On Sundays we have Girl Talk, we talk about the hard, messy, embarrassing, yet necessary things that we don't talk about enough with each other as black women. You know, those things that we think we're the only ones experiencing, so we don't share them for fear of being judged, just like you would at a Sunday brunch with your girls. And yes, the mimosas are included in each episode. Then on Wednesdays, we talk business and goal-crushing. I'll help you get the outcomes you desire in your life and business by showing you how to silence self-doubt, tune out the naysayers, optimize your assets, own your opulence and market your value.It's your time to be unapologetically opulent, and we're here for you! Make sure to subscribe for free so you don't miss an episode.

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How Fear Keeps You Playing Small with Nortosia Scott

December 26, 2021 • Cassandra Alexis • Season 1 • Episode 78

Have you ever had this amazing idea in your head - be it as big as starting a business or as “simple” as launching your own podcast—and you sit around waiting for your fear to subside while you witness other people actually turn this same incredible idea of yours into a reality? Think about all the missed opportunities and ‘could have beens’.

The past months, battling the pandemic and other challenges, have shown us that the life we have at the very moment can be changed in a snap. And so, while scary as it may be, it's important to face our fears and not let them keep us from the success that awaits us on the other side of fear.

Fear takes on a life of its own, and our emotions sometimes control us more than we control them. While some may have the misconception that it’s “all in our heads”, it’s actually very real. It can make us become disillusioned about what we want in the present, which causes us to be complacent and stuck in our own comfort zone, too afraid to think outside the box or take risks.

Being constantly in a state of fear keeps us from taking the next steps towards new things. It keeps us playing small because of the instinct of sticking with something familiar and comfortable.

In this episode, I’m joined by Nortosia Scott, a Certified Abundant Life Coach. Listen to how she finally lives up to her purpose of changing lives and seeing everyone win as she shares her experience in conquering the fear of the unknown - even her fear of jumping into the ocean!

Here in this episode, I also share with you a seemingly silly fear that I have recently overcome in this episode: drink alcohol that’s blended with ice cream! While Nortosia shares how overcoming one of her long-standing fears helped her enjoy her vacation even more.

In this conversation, we discuss:

Understanding fear and its different manifestations
FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real
What it means to be afraid
The two spectrums: (1) fear of the danger that we know of; and (2) fear of the unknown
The source of our fears
Nortosia’s 3 main tips on overcoming fears
The launching process of Crowned Opulence and the fear that came with it

Episode drink:

Strawberry Shortcake Mimosa

Ingredients:

Strawberry Ice cream
Vanilla vodka
Prosecco
Whipped cream with vanilla wafers

About the Guest:

Nortosia Scott is an abundant life coach and a licensed clinical social worker in Houston, Texas.

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